Your Engagement Ring Guide!
- Vu Jewellers
- Nov 14
- 3 min read
How to Choose the Perfect Engagement Ring When You Don’t Know Where to Start
Choosing an engagement ring is one of those lovely moments in life that feels exciting… and a little overwhelming. There’s so much information out there, so many styles, and so many opinions. It’s perfectly natural to feel unsure about where to begin. So, we've put together this engagement ring guide to help...
At Vu Jewellers, we meet couples every week who arrive with exactly the same feeling. The good news? With a little guidance, the whole process becomes calm, enjoyable and surprisingly easy. Here’s how to choose the perfect engagement ring when you don’t know where to start.
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1. Begin With the Person You Love
Before exploring stones or metals, think about the person who will wear the ring every day.
Consider their:
• Personal style – Are they minimalist, classic, colourful, vintage-inspired?
• Lifestyle – Do they use their hands a lot? Do they prefer practical, low-profile designs?
• Existing jewellery – Do they wear yellow gold, white gold, rose gold, or a mixture?
These quiet clues help steer you towards a ring that feels naturally them.
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2. Understand the Main Stone Options
Diamonds are timeless—but they’re not the only beautiful choice.
Diamonds - Natural or lab-grown, diamonds remain the most traditional option. Both are durable, sparkling and available in a range of shapes and sizes.
Sapphires - A favourite in our workshop. Sapphires come in the most extraordinary colours—teal, green, pink, parti, and the classic blues. They’re durable and distinct, perfect for someone who loves a touch of individuality.
Other gemstones - Tourmaline, spinel, emerald, citrine and more—stones chosen thoughtfully can create a deeply personal ring.
If you don’t know where to start, that’s completely fine. We guide you through stones you might not have even considered.
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3. Focus on Shape Before Sparkle
Rather than jumping straight into the finer details, begin with the stone shape:
• Oval
• Round
• Pear
• Marquise
• Emerald cut
• Trillion
• Princess
Shape instantly defines the style of the ring and often gives people clarity very quickly. You’ll know the right one when you see it.
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4. Choose a Metal That Matches Their Style
Yellow gold is rich, warm and classic.
White gold is modern and clean.
Rose gold feels soft and romantic.
Mixed metals are increasingly popular and beautifully versatile.
We always encourage clients to choose the metal the wearer naturally gravitates toward—comfort and familiarity matter.
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5. Consider Whether to Choose Natural or Lab-Grown Diamonds
If you’re looking at diamonds, both natural and lab-grown are wonderful options. Lab-grown diamonds offer great value and size flexibility. Natural diamonds carry geological rarity and tradition. There’s no right or wrong—just what feels right for you as a couple. We help you understand both without pressure.
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6. Think About the Setting Style
Do you prefer:
• A simple solitaire
• A halo
• A toi et moi
• A trilogy
• A cluster
• A bespoke asymmetrical design
Trying on a few styles often brings instant clarity. A setting should feel comfortable, secure and suit the wearer’s everyday life.
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7. Trust the Process — and Your Jeweller
The most important thing is finding someone you feel comfortable with. A jeweller who listens, guides without pushing, and genuinely wants you to feel confident and excited.
That’s exactly how we approach every engagement ring at Vu Jewellers. From the first conversation to the moment the ring is finished, we’re here to make the journey calm, personal and memorable.
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Ready to Begin?
If you’re feeling unsure, we promise you’re not alone. Choosing an engagement ring doesn’t need to be daunting. Pop into our studio at The Landing, or get in touch to book a relaxed appointment. We’ll help you explore stones, settings and ideas until it feels perfectly “you”.
A beautiful ring begins with a conversation—and we’d love to start one with you. 💛
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